Fabulous start to the weekend. Friday 5pm prepping for happy hour and a night out with the girls: Still down 19lbs, vodka seltzer flowing,eye lashes on perfect and wearing my new blue dress where I can confidently say I was looking pretty hot due to the combination of my healthy eating and arduous workouts! To top it off, had a very handsome guy who I have been talking to from one of the dating sites meeting me out for a drink. We definitely hit it off, lots of chemistry and hopefully I’m gearing towards another date and see if this can lead to some kind of relationship. After a long fun night, we had a conversation in the morning and he advised me that one of my girl friends had friend requested him on facebook. Now, clearly, I was with this guy at the bar, intimately conversing and kissing, so there was no confusion that this was a romantic interest of mine.
Feeling overly annoyed by this , I decided to text my friend (who happens to be 12 years older than me) who did this today to ask why she would request him on facebook, when in fact, that was my first “date” with him and I am just getting to know him. I also asked for her to unfriend him out of respect to me, as it makes me feel uncomfortable and awkward. I have gotten no response to my texts and feeling very annoyed and somewhat disrespected.
Is this in violation of girl code? Ladies, I welcome any opinions as I am contemplating ending this friendship since these actions are not in line with what I call a friend and I have about 5 best friends who would never do something like this to me. (Also, she has a past history of blurring the boundary lines with not only me, but, other people when it comes to their significant other)
Thoughts? Comments? Advice?
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